If you are a newly out trans person (or questioning) and a loved one is asking you to not transition for x amount of time for either ambiguous reasons, or reasons related to their own goals and not your happiness, then I have something to tell you.

That's abuse. You're being abused.

You deserve all the happiness in the world and no one should ever dim your shine. My DMs are open to you. ❤️

@EmilyIsRad My ex did this. It wasn't the final straw that made me realize he was abusive, but in retrospect it was another missed red flag. Thank you for the support.

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